Virtual Learning Pros & Cons and Tips for Successful Students

We are entering a new era. This year our children are being taught by screens…

With a pandemic raging, educators throughout the world assessed the possibilities of how to move forward educating our youth in such an uncertain time. A variety of solutions have been implemented throughout the US. many schools opened only to close their doors a week later.

In my Kansas school district, we were given the option to choose; virtual vs. in-person; however, the public school system is following the advice from the health department and we are currently in the ‘virtual only’ phase.

I chose this option with the intent of homeschooling when and if virtual learning becomes a bigger problem than teaching my child myself. (Which has it’s own unique set of problems.)

An experiment in the making, virtual learning; it’s the wave most of us are currently riding.

Yesterday my daughter runs upstairs crying out my name. Outside my office I hear a mix of sad angry stomps, running down the hallway.

“I’m locked out of art. The video won’t work… I don’t know how to do the project!! I WANTED to do the project!!”

I think back to the scene in the movie Office Space.

It’s one we can all relate to, where they use sledgehammers to smash the fax machine?

Emotions run high when technology fails us. It’s frustrating feeling helpless in our ability to solve the problem. Infuriating… ‘make you want to give up’-

It requires daily evaluation and constant problem solving.

Children learn by exploring the world around them. Screen time is a relatively new phenomena, so we must continue to ask what effect does screen time have on developing brains’?

‘Recent studies have found that excessive screen time can harm children’s health, like increasing obesity and disrupting sleep.

Earlier research focused on television and console videos games, because that’s what was around at the time. But since the iPhone was introduced in 2007, the screen time landscape has changed drastically.’ *Healthline

How to make virtual learning the best of a bad situation?

Set your child up for success by created a space JUST for learning. And no, that’s not their bed. Your child needs 1 or 2 dedicated work areas.

Here are a few things I’ve found helpful:

  1. Flex Space Balance Ball or Yoga Ball to help with posture and restlessness.
  2. An Alexa for setting timer and reminders. I have one Echo Dot Downstairs in my daughter’s workspace and another in my workspace upstairs. If you say ‘Alexa make announcement‘, it records & repeats your message on all other units.
  3. Daylight bulbs to help emulate outdoor light. Mimicking outdoor light can help people feel more comfortable and positive. It can also lessen eye strain.

Setting Digital Boundaries

As I work from home, I get the privilege of listening to the entire day. And for the first week, that is exactly what I did.

I was encouraged by our teacher’s efforts to establish some digital boundaries & setting some standards for proper use. While they’ve promised children won’t actually be on the screen ALL day… they are on the screen MOST of the day. Six hours is far too much for my daughter’s developing brain.

Things teachers should implement to simplify their virtual classroom:

  • Chatting between students should be disabled. Microphones need to be turned off. Background noise should be at a minimum when speaking.
  • Kids need a break from the screen every 30-45 minutes. Don’t trade one screen for another!
  • Mobile doesn’t mean it’s mobile! They hold in their tiny hands an expensive piece of equipment. It shouldn’t travel from room to room UNLESS it’s in between meeting times.

I hope this sets you all up for success! Please share what you’re learning along this journey.

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xoxo adrienne signing off

Newborn Photography; Tricks of the Trade

Achieving Artistic Newborn Photography

Newborn photographs, look easy, right? The baby just curls up and sleeps-

The photographer props their tiny head on their hands and the magic just happens, right?

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Hats are a fun way to hide a coney newborn head!

Newborns actually can NOT support their heads by themselves. Their neck muscles develop over time so those images are manufactured in Photoshop.

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Nature moments are more intimate and natural than a posed baby.

While PhotoShop can creates stunning effects via post-production… my style is true to life and reminiscent of film.

Using light, texture and a limited color palette, I can create a unique still life every time I work with a newborn without finding any need for elaborate props. (Although, a few personal items can add a fun personal element!)

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Before having my own Newborn, I didn’t know what to do!?

To be honest, I wasn’t always great with newborns! One of my early newborn sessions took place when I was 8 weeks pregnant. The baby cried the entire time! I spent FOUR hours in a futile effort to provide assistance.

As it turned out, the baby was suffering from acid re-flux but at the time, none of us knew.

I didn’t have the skills to calm a baby or comfortably maneuver them into something photo worthy.

Initially, I didn’t think I was cut out for this particular realm of photography; but motherhood was just around the corner to teach me the lessons I needed.

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Newborn Photography takes a lot of patience and practice.

After the birth of my own child, spending day in and day out with a newborn, gave me the understanding needed to handle newborn babies. Now I work with newborns on a regular basis and my images reflect the vision of a mother.

These days I have an arsenal of time tested tricks that help me capture these fleeting days with your newborn baby!

xoxo adrienne signing off

Preparing for your Newborn Photography

You ask? How do I prepare when I’ve never had a newborn photography session?

‘Oh no.. it’s happening!’ The new mom exclaims frantically as she uses her hand to shield mustard yellow poop from running onto my spotless, ivory couch.  It’s only spotless because it frequently gets cleaned by me & my good friend Oxy-Clean.  I’ve removed the stains of childhood plenty of times.  It was recently attacked by a toddler with a red crayon and before that, another baby girl who couldn’t hang on to her lunch.

You see, this is normal.  It happens almost every time.

Kids are messy. Life is messy.

I am prepared for these things to happen.  You’ve JUST had a baby & we will work around your newborn!  You will probably nurse your new baby several times… and change them several times.  But the best thing about a single photograph is the power to freeze ‘a moment’… lock that moment down… so that the in-between no longer matters.

Keep reading to see my tips on preparing for your newborn portrait session. 

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Newborn studio sessions provide plenty of time to allow you to nurse, change diapers, RELAX while Adrienne snuggles your infant!)

You are tired, frustrated and anxious just after giving birth making it hard to want photos. Don’t let THAT keep you from having these first moments documented.

‘Don’t take any photos of me! I look terrible. I couldn’t get it together this morning!?!’

Try not to worry about that.

It’s a vulnerable time and I get it. 

I can’t remember a more stressful time in my life than the first few days after giving birth! Ugh. I didn’t look or feel like myself. The last thing I wanted to do was leave the house.  (That’s ok, I come to you!) 

I felt Gross. Fat. TIRED…. so tired…

I’ve been there and I know exactly how you feel.  I utilize beautiful lighting, creative posing, and the ART of photography to creatively include you in the photographs.  Just snuggle your new little bundle & I will work around the mess.

I’ll admit, I went through a bit of trial and error before I achieved the look I wanted for my newborn portraits. I wasn’t completely comfortable handling newborn babies until after having my own. It is a talent achieved by handling lot of tiny babies and patience, always plenty of patience.

Photographs are like magic… using lighting & creativity I look for the perfect moments to tell your beautiful story.  And if you’ve already met me, you KNOW you are going to be entertained.

I will share with you my life experiences & assure you this happens to everyone!  The photos we create as we chat & soothe your baby.. those photos will become a memory you’ll never regret!  I realize this more with every passing year. 

The photos I have taken are now forever remembered ‘moments’ in a family’s history.  Heirloom works of art that will be special to the children that have yet to be born!

Here’s how to Prepare for your Newborn Photography Session in the comfort of your home.

  1. DO NOT clean the house!! When I arrive I’ll move things around to find the perfect spot with great light. You’ve just had a baby- just relax & I’ll handle the rest.
  2. Warm it up!! Newborns sleep better when they are warm & cozy. Bump the heat a few degrees just before I arrive.
  3. Be prepared to nurse or feed a bottle or two… or three.  In the early days, you’re little one will eat often!  If you are nursing, wear something that will be easy to get on & off. BE comfortable.
  4. Have any props, outfits, stuffed animals set out.  We’ll go through and determine several things to add personal touches to your session. {Anything goes- fun hats, blankets, anything with texture, neat boxes, baskets… anything your baby will fit inside! Think Creatively!}
  5. Home sessions are designed to be relaxed. You might even doze off as I put together several creative scenes for your newborn & get a variety of shots within each artistic set.

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xoxo adrienne signing off

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Art of Photographing Children

Half-way through, she told me how she’d thought about canceling.. or pushing back her family photo session.

‘It never feels like the ‘right’ time? Ya know?’

You want to feel ‘less-frumpy’ and less like the ‘work-from-home-I’ve-gained-a-few-pounds-since-quarantine– look.

Trust me, I understand!

My first session back since quarantine, provided every reminder of why I tell stories.

Children grow quickly, we blink and babies become toddlers. They never stop growing and evolving. Those first 18 years are already half done for me.

It’s important to remember despite the current world climate, it’s important to focus on what makes YOU happy. Stay positive and make small steps in the direction of happiness every day.

When you don’t know the future, simply continue doing the NEXT right thing.

Whitney found me last year when searching for a photographer to help celebrate her daughter’s first birthday.

I was smitten. From our first phone call when we discovered we were both from red-heads who moved to KC from the South. This instant connection still excites me after all these years photographing families!

So what will you miss tomorrow, after it’s past?

I miss my daughter’s toothless grin.

But I fell in love her new smile, the one full of baby teeth. When those began falling out, we celebrated singing, ‘All I want for Christmas is my two front teeth!’

It became part of our memories, celebrating milesstones together.

As I look back through these memories, I realize I have few images of my daughter and I together. While I know I was there in all of them, I long to see us together- even if I felt ‘frumpy-and-gross’ at the time.

As a mother and woman whom often judges her own reflection with criticism, trust me when I say this:

I DO NOT SEE YOU THIS WAY!

(Plus, it’s about the kiddo anyway.)

I promise that together, we can create something magical and celebrate the beautiful people and moments in your life.

Let’s celebrate the HAPPY now!

Stuck in our homes with our children, day-in and day-out is exhausting. Believe it or not, a photo shoot outside is a perfect way to spend the afternoon!

The photograph below was inspiration in the moment. With a little trust from Whitney and a few items from my collection, we wrangled the baby into the frame below.

We can do the same with a few simple items from your closet just ask me how and we can brainstorm together!

xoxo adrienne signing off

Mother’s Day FREE Printables

My love language is acts of service…

Words of affirmation are important to me as well but there is nothing better than a little extra help when I’m not expecting it. But my daughter is nine and ‘cleaning up after herself’ is a hard won battle.

But you wanna know something?!

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Lately my daughter is surprising me with coloring pages to show her appreciation?!

She figured out how to print out pages from my computer and gives them to me once they are completed. They are a little token of love from her to me. And I get it!

Her primary love language is gift giving.

Mothers Day Free Printable from @AMaplesPhoto

But just in case your budget is running low & your gift is a day full of papering mom, you can print these out or send them in an email to help make mom’s day!

Mothers Day Free Printable from @adrienneAMaplesPhoto

CLICK here to download these Mothers Day FREE Printable’s from my Google Drive.

xoxo adrienne signing off

Believe in Yourself. Always.

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‘You’ll never be any good at photography’

It was my soft more year & I was taking the very first photography class of my collegiate career.

By now, I’d already dedicated two years toward obtaining a Bachelor of Fine Arts degree. The Savannah College of Art & Design required students to finish all core classes before taking classes within your major.

With my core classes complete I was finally back in the darkroom, where I belonged.

Photography is a very expensive hobby

Before digital technology made film & processing costs irrelevant, I was spending thousands of dollars on film, paper and other basic needs.  I was still shooting with my first film camera, a Minolta X-370 and the camera body hadn’t been serviced in years- if ever?!

Everything was manual. And I mean E-V-E-R-Y-T-H-I-N-G!

Exposure was determined by an internal light meter which measured ‘middle gray’.  Focusing, metering & changing out fixed lenses was just another part of the process.

As a college kid on a diet of ramen noodle, I didn’t have funds to purchase anything fancy. While I was envious of my classmates and their shiny new lenses, I pushed forward with what I had learning the hard way.

My instructor was Jaclyn Cori. It was early in her years of teaching but she was already known for ripping people apart. I recall her as impeccably dressed, petite woman with beautiful olive skin.  Something about the way she carried herself made her intimidating.

I haven’t forgotten the sinking feeling I had when I met with her for my midterm review.

‘You’ll never be any good at this.’

She said coldly from across the room. She rose from behind her desk and floated across the room, closing the door behind me. She circled back and sat on the edge of her desk before inviting me in to take a seat.

I stumbled into the room dazed, like that of a frolicking deer shocked by the sudden burst of headlights.

She pulled out a stack of black and white contact sheets from a folder on her desk.

Contact sheets were essentially xerox copies of your film.  We’d slide our film negatives into pockets on an 8.5×11 sheet made for preserving 35mm film.  Then we’d create a positive print of the entire page- like a copier. This was how we were graded and helped us determine good vs. bad exposure.

‘Do you know what you are doing wrong?’

She asked as she handed over the contact sheets which I recognized as my own. I shrugged working hard to hold back tears, trying to find the words to speak.

It was true I was struggling with my exposure. My images lacked contrast. While I was writing down every exposure & corresponding frame (yeah, that’s how we did it before digital), somehow I was missing my mark every time?

I was frustrated and hoping for something, inspiration perhaps?

She continued, ‘I’m not exactly sure what you are doing? But these exposures are all muddy. It looks like you are consistently underexposing 1-2 stops? If you want true blacks, meter for middle gray and reduce two stops.’

(If you missed that, it was all photo gargon for: you are not exposing properly but mostly you suck at this.)

Try, try and try again.

I didn’t let this talk discourage me. In my next class, we ran tests on our camera’s and I discovered my light meter was off 2 stops!  Pushing forward in spite of my own doubts, I built a website and launched my business my senior year.

When I originally built my website, I had nothing but time. It was my senior year and I was taking a computed class with Professor Tan. He was a Turkish man who spoke often about the conflict in his home country.

He was an inspiration. I always enjoyed his class even if we spent the day hearing about stories from his youth. He knew his stuff and I took advantage. While the other students were completing a final project on animation, I got his approval to build my first website and get it online.

After graduation in 2002, I’d already begun picking up jobs and slowly adding the new equipment I needed.

Jaclyn called me shortly after graduation.

She’d recently gotten engaged and stumbled across my website while searching for photographers. She remembered having me as a student but she didn’t remember the conversation in her office quite like I did.

She was impressed with my site and congratulated me on the work I was producing. I hung up the phone ready to charge forward again. It was just what I needed at the time in order to get me to the next level.

Until next time-

 

 

Mean Girls; Raising Compassionate Daughters

woman hero quote in pinkRaising a Compassionate Daughter in today’s world of Cyber-space is quite the challenge.

At bath time I notice my daughter studying her seven year old figure in the mirror. She turns herself from side-to-side attempting to straighten her posture & suck in her belly.

Momma?‘ she hesitates… ‘When will my belly go away? The girls at recess were teasing me…’

All at once, my past and her future flashed before me.

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Girls are just plain mean.

I was the naive little girl who inevitably walked right into the traps other girls set for me.

In 8th grade, one of the most popular girls in school suffered an embarrassing break-up. The boy LOUDLY made the announcement to everyone just before the first bell.

I was under the impression this girl was my best friend. After all, she lived down the block and she was the first ‘friend’ I’d made when I moved in with my dad. 

Empathetic to her plight, I slipped a hand-written note into her locker just before lunch.

The note thoughtfully pointed out the reasons why the boy was an idiot before I began gushing about why she deserved someone better. Then I decorated the page with colorful hearts, flowers and swirly’s- making it extra special.

At lunch, everyone was buzzing. It seemed a lot of fingers were pointed in my direction and I felt like all eyes were on me as one of the popular boys approached my table.

He took a seat across from me and took a piece of paper out of his pocket.  I immediately recognized my own handwriting as he carefully unfolded the page and laid it in front of me.

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Heat rushed to my cheeks, I swallowed hard trying to suppress the tears.

“What’s this all about, ehe?’  he pretended to be concerned but his words were empty.

“There are copies making the rounds all over school! You know… everyone thinks you are in love with Michelle?”

I was mortified.

It was just two weeks before summer break and I was the laughing stock of the school. I imagined this is all anyone would be talking about over the summer. Conversations at the beach would be centered around the silly little girl who was stupid enough to think Michelle was her best friend. Ha. Ha. Ha.

But the other children did forget quickly.

Within a week, their minds were racing towards summer vacation. Everyone went back to being children and eventually the humiliation took a back seat in my brain as well. No one seemed to remember the following year and I moved onward.

The internet doesn’t easily forget.

Fortunately, my mortifying event took place during the days of dial-up internet.

Thankfully Facebook and Instagram were non-existent so it wasn’t yet common practice to take a photo and immediately post online.

‘Regardless of age, women of all walks are drawn together into a posse by their very need for constant reinforcement.’

While mean girls who prey upon the less popular have always existed; today cyber bullying is vicious and it’s leading to teen suicide in alarming rates. This is something that needs to be combated early. We need to teach our daughters to be better.

Together we can Change the Standard for Social Media

While social media is still a relatively new concept to my generation- kids today are growing up with direct access to all of their peers. We are just beginning to understand the overall arching impact this will have on our children.

We all do it… slip into that ‘mean girl’ mentality when we feel insecure or threatened. It’s easy enough to pick someone else apart in an effort to feel better about ourselves. ‘Insecurity breeds hostility and contempt.'(3)

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Today we have direct access to hurt feelings and destroy someone’s self confidence by simply hitting the return button.

‘Being bullied by a mean girl is a kind of social torment that often exists without parents and teachers even noticing. Social media has given mean girls an entirely new avenue to harm others. In addition to in-person bullying, mean girls also engage in cyberbullying.’ (1)

Facing personal insecurities and finding your own tribe without putting others down.

At my age, I am still insecure in some situations but I manage to force my way through the doors… I put on a smile and fake the confidence necessary to get to the other side of the room. This is a requirement in my profession. When I am wearing my camera, I don’t think twice about entering a room.

My camera gives me the confidence to enter any social circle and take control. I often employ this confidence when I enter a room without my camera. I attempt to smile and make eye contact with others, nodding to acknowledge their existence.

I use this same technique when I take my daughter to the playground.

While other parents are aggressively typing on their phones in an effort to avoid eye-contact, I go the opposite route. I smile and engage with their children

This isn’t always easy, especially for those whom have anxiety in social situations. It’s important to learn coping mechanisms and ease into a social dynamic that might make you uncomfortable.

Five Ways to Help your Child 

As kids navigate friendships and cliques, there’s plenty parents can do to offer support. If your child seems upset, or suddenly spends time alone when usually very social, ask about it. Here are some tips:

Talk about your own experiences: Share your own experiences of school — cliques have been around for a long time!

Help put rejection in perspective: Remind your child of times he or she has been angry with parents, friends, or siblings — and how quickly things can change.

Shed some light on social dynamics: Acknowledge that people are often judged by the way a person looks, acts, or dresses, but that often people act mean and put others down because they lack self-confidence and try to cover it up by maintaining control.

Find stories they can relate to: Many books, TV shows, and movies portray outsiders triumphing in the face of rejection and send strong messages about the importance of being true to your own nature and the value of being a good friend, even in the face of difficult social situations. For school-age kids, books like “Blubber” by Judy Blume illustrate how quickly cliques can change. Older kids and teens might relate to movies such as “Mean Girls,” “Angus,” “The Breakfast Club,” and “Clueless.”

Foster out-of-school friendships: Get kids involved in extracurricular activities (if they aren’t already) — art class, sports, martial arts, horse riding, language study — any activity that gives them an opportunity to create another social group and learn new skills.

*(excerpt from: Helping kids Cope with Cliques- Kid’s Health)

  1. Signs of A Mean Girl
  2. Dealing with Mean Women
  3. The Psychology of Mean Girl Cliques

Financial Aid for Small Businesses & Photographers

Where do I even start?

This is the question I’m hearing from small business owners from every industry. And while I am by no means and expert on this particular issue, I’ve run a successful small business for more than 16 years.

And I don’t intend on giving up now!

So while the service industry and many others are at a stand still, I’m spending my time researching the facts and gathering the necessary information to ensure I celebrate another year.

The SBA has Good News for Small Businesses, Sole Proprietor’s and Independent Contractors

‘Our nation’s small businesses are facing an unprecedented economic disruption due to the Coronavirus (COVID-19) outbreak. On Friday, March 27, 2020, the President signed into law the CARES Act, which contains $376 billion in relief for American workers and small businesses.’

The CARES Act Economic Relief Plan offers support to small businesses including the Paycheck Protection Program and the Economic Injury Disaster Loan. It’s the first measures taken to try and support small businesses in the wake

To learn more about the relief options available for your business, click here.

PPP Protection Program Grant Loan

‘The Paycheck Protection Program is a loan designed to provide a direct incentive for small businesses to keep their workers on the payroll.’

This program will forgive loans when the money applies to the following expenses paid within the first 8 weeks of receiving the loan: payroll, healthcare benefits, rent, electricity, internet, phone, and transportation established BEFORE February 2020.

Additionally employee and compensation levels must be maintained.

You ARE eligible of you are a small business with 1-500 employees, independent contractors or self-employed. No collateral will be required.

This is a 100% federally-guaranteed loan for small businesses.

This loan/ forgiveness program will cover 2.5 times your average monthly payroll and the first $10,000 will be forgiven as long as you play by the rules. (Re: spending the cash on payroll, rent, ect. mentioned earlier.)

Steps to Apply

  1. Submit an application via the SBA website.
  2. Contact your bank and speak with a loan specialist to begin the process.
  3. Gather the necessary paperwork BEFORE meeting with your bank.

Forms you’ll need to prepare

Prepare now by collecting copies of your 2018 & 2019 tax returns from the last two years and print out copies of your payroll.

  1. Schedule of Liabilities (your current loans/debts)
  2. Personal Financial Statement
  3. Tax Returns from 2019, 2018, 2017 (for good measure I pulled 3 years)
  4. Request for Tax Return Transcript

What does the CARES Act mean exactly?

The Coronavirus Aid, Relief, and Economic Security (CARES) Act allocated $350 billion to help small businesses keep workers employed amid the pandemic and economic downturn. You apply through the SBA as like you are applying for a loan; however the first $10,000 is forgivable if you spend the money on the items I mentioned above.

Want someone to walk you through the application? Check out this YouTube video by Amanda Russell a business finance coach.

Download these forms directly from my Google Drive

Additional Links for More information:

Please share this with any small business owner you know. This applies to not only photographers, but all small business owners in the US.

xoxo adrienne signing off

The Secret About my Tattoo

It’s no joke! I got my first tattoo on April Fool’s Day.

While it sounds a little odd, it wasn’t a decision I made lightly.

It was to mark a significant moment in my life. This would be my reminder. Something I would see each and every time I picked up my camera.

A reminder I was free. 

A reminder of the day I set out to reach my full potential again, without anyone telling me I couldn’t.

It was the day I pushed past my fears and decided to start living again. I would march forward a proud divorced mother.

A tattoo to mark a change in me.

I spent weeks thinking about the best way to represent this feeling, when my best friend suggested I use one of my photographs.

This was perfect! I knew immediately the photograph I wanted. I would use the one I took of the geese flying south that Winter. Geese flying home.

NO! I’m not flying South and leaving my Kansas City community!

This is just a metaphor! But in the days following my divorce, there was a rumor making rounds that I was moving home.

That was when I stepped back from Social Media and decided to re-evaluate where it fit into my life. I needed to determine the next course of action before moving forward.

And here I am THREE years later.

I’ve re-written the narrative running through my head.

I’m not ashamed of being happily divorced. I’m not worried about what people think when I tell them I’m a ‘single mom.’

Instead I accept my challenge. And I am charging forward, FREE into tomorrow.

xoxo adrienne signing off
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