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Social Distancing isn’t ‘normal’ but it’s our NOW.

Social Distancing has brought about a ‘new’ NOT normal as we face the global pandemic of 2020. It’s brought fear and doubt into every home throughout the civilized world.

We are living a very surreal experience. But one that will remain part of our story. The things we do in the coming months will determine many things for our future.

This moment in our lives is HUGE. These days we spent in quarantine will not be easily forgotten.

As a photographer, I’m compelled to find a way to document this chapter of our history.

This is not a moment to let fear paralyze us into complacency- it’s a moment to seize the day and show our children the bright side of the dark.

I hope to see you soon friends… only six feet away, saying ‘hello’ with jazz hands.

** Please note, due to stay at home orders these sessions will take place AFTER these orders are lifted. Scheduling sessions now for May 2020.

xoxo adrienne signing off

Preparing to Slow down as a Small Business

Preparing for the unknown causes anxiety and fear. And fear makes people do crazy things. We are in early days of a global pandemic… as I type this it feels surreal.

Which is perhaps why so many people aren’t heeding the warnings in order to slow this thing down.

Over the weekend the mayor of Kansas City ordered gatherings of no more than 50 people but after seeing images of packed bars, he issued a new order closing schools, bars, restaurants and banning gatherings of more than 10.

How in the world can you prepare for a pandemic as a small business?!?

Panicking does MORE harm than good.

The novel Coronavirus the first real pandemic of our lifetime. So what does everybody do?

They buy lots of toilet paper or stockpile hand sanitizer.. more importantly they HOARD supplies because it makes them feel safe.

Mob mentality won’t help us in the long run.

In fact, mobbing the stores is a GREAT way to spread the virus. Especially since you have NO idea if you’ve been exposed for several days.

The only thing IMMEDIATE answer that will help, is to keep our distance physically and INSTEAD support our communities ONLINE.

March 13, 2020

Here’s the GREAT news! We are living in an age where we CAN accomplish a great number of things from the comfort of our homes.

Here are a few solutions to help support local communities.

Small business are the first to get hit hard. The event industry came to a screeching halt over the weekend due to the ban on large gatherings. I have friends who were instantly hard hit HARD by this global catastrophe.

Support small business online.

The obvious answer is to help by shopping small businesses online, purchasing gift cards or paying for services in advance. But even if you are short on cash you can help in other ways!

Another way to support small business is by writing reviews or testimonials on Google or Facebook. Give someone a shout out on social media. Share something that makes you smile. Every little thing makes a difference during difficult times.

Now is the best time to be neighborly.

Check on your neighbors, especially the ones who can’t get out because of pre-existing health conditions.

If you haven’t already, download the Nextdoor App and start connecting with your neighbors. Check in on the elderly in your neighborhood and offer to help anyway you can.

Hand write letters to older friends, family & other loved ones that might be isolated. This afternoon, Em and I plan to draw and color a few things to send t our Pawpa who’s 94. (He lost Gramma last June.)

Think outside the box.

Never shopped for groceries online? Well now’s the time to start! Most stores already offer this service.

If your business shut down for the next few weeks, think about what you’ve put off because you didn’t have the time (like cleaning out the garage!) Get your mind a break and keep yourself busy!

I’ve been studying new programs and watching YouTube videos from inspiring sources. I’d like to improve my video skills and get more comfortable on the other side of the camera.

I find regular inspiration from Jasmine Star, Peter McKinnon and Sunny Lenarduzzi

(Here’s a BRILLIANT 90 second video that got me inspired! It’s one of the first of many viral videos created by Peter McKinnon).

Surviving Catastrophe, what you can do now-

Do you remember the story of the little boy who cried wolf? Certainly you do- the little boy cries WOLF, WOLF… but there is no wolf.

A second time, he cries: WOLF WOLF WOLF!!

Still there is no wolf.

A third and final time he cries- WOLF WOLF... And a wolf eats him up.

The moral of the Boy Who Cried Wolf is about credibility through honesty. When you are honest, people trust you.

This is how I feel about the news media.

Breaking news is different than ACTUAL news. They have a tendency to cry WOLF in order to get attention… when there is no wolf.

Stories evolve over time…. and the story of 2020 is just beginning.

The conclusion to our PANDEMIC of 2020- has yet to be written. Acting NOW- right now- will make a big difference.

And acting now, does not mean stocking up on toilet paper!

This is NOT Normal. But it doesn’t mean we need to panic!

FACT: the only way to slow the spread is to stay home.

Social distancing is not a snow day! Over the next week, more cases will be confirmed locally. Staying put is THE ONLY WAY TO STOP the spread!

Social Distancing is necessary to spare our resources.

When healthcare professionals & hospitals are flooded with fresh cases, resources are spread thin. This means the quality of care is compromised, supply’s become limited and ultimately more people will die.

Italian doctors report ‘having to choose between intubating a 40-year-old with two kids, a 40-year old who is fit and healthy with no co-morbidities, and a 60-year-old with high blood pressure, because they don’t have enough beds. In the hallway, meanwhile, there are another 15 people waiting who are already hardly breathing and need oxygen.’ (source Newsweek)

I am telling you this as a small business owner who just lost ALL revenue for the next quarter. I’m not exactly sure what direction this will take me… but I’ve learned to survive.

But I know the first step is supporting others anyway I can and for now, this means staying home and using my computer & phone to connect with my community.

What every individual can do in a pandemic.

Find businesses offering innovative solutions

If you need help creating messages for your stakeholders or you need equipment to help monitor your employees as they work from home, reach out to companies who offer solutions. Catapult Media is a technology-based and communication driven company, they offer solutions so business operations can proceed as normal, even when everyone is not in the office. From video conferencing that will support up to 300 people there are solutions for everyone.

You can download their Coronavirus Response Plan for businesses here

Until next time, keep your family close & call your parents.

xoxo adrienne signing off


Holy Wedding Photographers EVERYWHERE!

Recently engaged and in the throes of planning a wedding? Are you struggling on choosing your photographer?

Did you Google weddings and found yourself overwhelmed with the sheer number ‘wedding photographer’ options?

Well, you are NOT ALONE! It’s a sign of the times my friends! 

 There are currently close to SIX HUNDRED photographers listed with The Knot here in Kansas City! Compare this with the hundred or so photographers listed when I first relocated here in 2005!?!

That’s RIDICULOUS growth!!

But choosing your wedding photographer is unlike the other decisions you’ll make for your wedding. You’ll select your photographer without knowing EXACTLY what it is your getting. Therefore it’s important to do a fair amount of research before making this very important decision. 

I’m sharing my top three tips on how to find the PERFECT wedding photographer for you.

Look through LOTS and LOTS of images…

First things first, you need to decide what you DO like and what you DO NOT like. Knowing your taste will help narrow the list somewhere. Many photographers coin themselves with terms like ‘photojournalist’ or ‘natural-light photographers’…

Don’t let buzz words fool you! Just LOOK through the photos and you’ll see for yourself what kind of photographs they really shoot.

As you look through an individual’s work, ask yourself these kinds of questions?

  • Are they creative? (RE: Do all of their images look repetitive.)
  • Were their images heavily manipulated in Photoshop?
  • Are their images a mix of candid and posed? Or is their style heavily one or the other?
  • Can they light a room artificially?
webster house ceremony

Fall in LOVE with your photographer.

Yes. I am serious! Once you’ve stumbled across images you LOVE- do a little more research on your photographer. Is this someone who will make you feel comfortable?

Reach out and connect DIRECTLY. Don’t leave your conversations specifically to emailing and messaging! It’s important to feel some connection when you talk with your photographer about your wedding plans. Try to match with someone who shares your energy level.

You get what you pay for-

One of my first photography jobs was working for John McManus– an architectural photographer in Savannah Georgia. I often quote things John once said while we were working. While several of them stick with me, my favorite was;

‘The bitterness of poor quality lingers long after the sweetness of low price. “

In this business, you get what you pay for and most of the time you’re paying for experience. Don’t get swept away with products & gimmicks they’ll include with their services. Look at THEIR IMAGES!! You’ll also notice some larger studios have several photographers on staff.

For instance, some wedding studios have multiple photographers on staff. If you want your wedding photographs to be personal, you’ll want to connect with your SPECIFIC photographer prior to the wedding day.

best wedding photo moments

This doesn’t mean meet in person! More than half of brides plan their wedding remotely, so if you’ve found images you LOVE don’t hesitate to set up a time to Skype, Facetime or hold a Zoom meeting with your photographer!

through the mass amount of individuals who’ve recently discovered photographer and don’t yet have the cat-like reflects which come with decades of shooting weddings!

xoxo adrienne signing off

Don’t Underestimate the POWER of a Bad Headshot! #truth

I get it. I really do!

Who has time for scheduling a headshot? It feels like a daunting task when you already have enough daily items on your ‘To-Do-List’. This can easily live at the bottom of everyone’s list.

If you are like me, there are some things I’ll can always find an excuse to avoid… like taxes- bleeeh!! No thanks.

For some, it’s having their photo taken. BUT if you choose your photographer wisely, you’ll look amazing AND feel like yourself.

But have you thought about what your current headshot says about you?

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Paul Verslius took my latest headshots.

Don’t underestimate the power of a BAD headshot!

Does your headshot make someone want to know more about you? Or does it make you look fake & untrustworthy? The truth is a bad headshot WILL turn people away.

As a portrait photographer, it’s my job to direct YOU.

Bring several options for clothing and together we will decide which outfit(s) look best. Professional hair and make-up is ideal for certain clients while others prefer less fuss! Ultimately it’s up to you; but based on my OWN experience- having someone fix my hair was well worth the additional cost.

I’ve helped hundreds of other business professionals, artists, educators, politicians, and fellow entrepreneurs showcase their best selves to potential clients!

Here are a few tips on what you should expect to get the BEST portrait-

Still plenty of individuals and businesses alike, rely on snapshots taken with a cell phone or poor quality images taken by an in-experienced photographer. The fact remains= better photos get more likes!

Portraits sculpted with light and crafted to perfection distinguish you from your constituents in a way few other things can.

While I provide branding sessions to help small businesses, artists and other entrepreneurs promote themselves; I also provide larger businesses, law firms, medical practices, etc. with headshots for all staff on site. Creating continuity throughout all headshots for staff directories and web presence.

The following list of questions is designed to get you started on the right track!

What style/ look does your business require?

Are you matching your headshot to a company standard? If so, tell your photographer so we can recreate similar lighting and background colors.

If you are starting fresh and building your brand, your images should illustrate your business in a way that resonates with your ideal clientele. Often this requires multiple scenes or what we often call ‘looks’ in branding photography. What kind of environment tells about your business? What type of ‘look’ connects you with your clients?

Do you need more than one ‘Look’?

Clothing can say a LOT so plan accordingly. Do you identify with ‘the suits’ or do you see yourself with your sleeves rolled-up? How many different ‘looks’ do you need?

Communicating your ideas to your photographer?

Open communication is the best way to receive your desired outcome from your branding session! Together we’ll brainstorm and make a list of ways to tell a story about your company. Screenshot & collect images which inspire you. Seek out photographs which demonstrate the feeling/look/style/lighting you’d like to achieve with your own images. Share all of this with me.

Here are a few examples to get your brain running-

  • Urban cityscape- business portraits in the heart of the city
  • Park Setting walking dog, everyday man
  • Talking with people & shaking hands
  • Place of Business, working at your desk, making calls
  • Fashion Portraits in-studio, Dynamic portraits
  • Singing in the shower, (Just kidding, checking to see who’s still reading!)

Standard Headshot Requirements for applications

If you require a headshot to complete an application, verify the requirements before booking your shoot. Typically a 3/4 length shot is required on a standard grey background. However a few different lighting variations have gained popularity in recent years.

  • Corporate Professional- Standard Grey Background
  • High Key- White Seamless Background
  • Low Key- Black Background
  • Black & White or Color

How much do headshots cost?

Just like with anything, you get what you pay for. On the low end you can expect to pay $200 for a decent single headshot. On the high end expect to pay $1000+ for several set-ups and a variety of ‘scene’ options.

It’s best to discuss what makes your business dynamic and determine how you stand out from the crowd. The best way to achieve this is by hiring a professional photographer who can create magazine quality, editorial images to promote and illustrate your brand.

These days we buy and sell everything online. Images are what grab our attention95% of the time our decisions are solely based on the aesthetic look of packaging!

So friends? How will you stand out from the crowd?

What does your current headshot say about you?! Send us a message. We’d love to help update your headshot to help promote your business, artistry or organization!!

xoxo adrienne signing off

What to Wear for Photos?

Do you have anxiety over choosing what to wear for photos? In fact, this is a frequent reason many people put OFF getting family photos.

This is the number one question I’m asked: What do I wear for my Photos?!?

Rest easy, friend cause I’ve got you covered! I’ve put together some guidelines to help prepare you for your next photo session. Remember download my TOP TIPS when preparing to be on camera or in front of an audience.

psst: check out this fun video to see how I prepared for my latest headshots!

Don’t overthink what you’ll wear & bring several outfit options.

Select what to wear based on clothes YOU feel comfortable, confident and beautiful wearing. But here are a few things worth considering.

  • Darker colors have a slimming effect vs. a light color palette provides a fresh, lighter look good for Spring/Summer.
  • AVOID Prints and patterns UNLESS… used in small doses or as a splash of color.
  • Try to avoid sleeveless clothing unless you are laying with a cardigan or jacket.
  • NO short pants. (Think hairy MAN legs in your photos. Ya? No!)
  • Accessories can add flair but don’t over do it!
  • If you wear glasses, make sure they are clean.
  • Get a haircut at least ONE week prior to photos.
family portrait first baby

Dress in layers! Leggings + a camisole make a good bottom layer-

You don’t want to be tugging at your pants or re-adjusting your top because it doesn’t fit quite right! Therefore it is important to wear something that fits you well. Choose something that flatters YOUR figure.

Should I wear heels for photos?

Do you have an awesome pair of shoes you never get to wear? Well this is the perfect opportunity to show them off; however you’ll wear comfortable shoes to your shoot. A cute pair of flats should always be in your bag!

When choosing colors for your family, use the rule of three’s

Rule of three Choose 2 colors that work well together + 1 splash of color!

Personally… I love applying this rule to creamy whites & ivory’s with a splash of color. Once you have your 3 colors, the rest is easy! Vary your use of color by opting for a different fabrics with varying textures. Look at how each texture absorbs or reflects light. Pair with accessories that add bits of color and personality.

Stick within a tonal range:

  • Pastels (pinks and blues)
  • Primary colors (red and blue)
  • Earth tones (navy, tan, burgundy, or green)

You can safely add cream, whites and ivory to any color combination.

Solid colors or small simple prints work best.

Typically, only children should wear small prints while the adults stick to solid colors. If you want to incorporate plaids, bright colors and patterns- just tone it down by layering with a neutral jacket or sweater.

Portraits of Mom and Baby

what to wear for baby photos

Soft colors and pastels work well for babies & toddler. Although truthfully, chubby cheeks, budda bellies, stubby fat fingers & toes… these are some of my favorite things that define babies. Simple is better.

I prefer to photograph babies and children barefoot because I like tiny toes!

Choosing Clothing for CHILDREN

Avoid large animal characters or logos! Your clothes shouldn’t distract from the subject matter- your beautiful children.

Preparing for a LARGE Family Photo

Large family reunion type groups need special consideration. If you are the lucky person organizing for this, determine if your family is more formal or casual.

It is important all family members know the “theme” of the photo. If one family comes in suits and dresses and another comes in jeans and T-shirts, it might look a bit odd. Women will often be seated, so be certain skirts cover knees and are comfortably loose.

Again, keep things simple!

  1. Give them three colors
  2. Encourage variety in fabrics
  3. Suggest jeans or khaki’s
  4. NO shorts & NO sleeveless
large family portrait good examples of what to wear for photos

Tips to Remember:

Ladies remember to lipstick and powder.

Men don’t forget to bring a belt.

If you need a haircut, have it done at least a week before so that it has time to look natural

Don’t be afraid to mix it up to make your portraits unique- For instance, if you have a fun dress for your little girl (as seen below), select colors within the outfit to dress the rest of the family.

For more ideas, visit our Pinterest Page with things to get you inspired!

xoxo adrienne signing off

The BEST WORST week of my life; the week gramma died

Today was her birthday. December the 7th, on her last birthday she turned 90. I couldn’t return home last year and it was her last birthday…

For the first time since her death, she came alive in my dreams last night. She was the size of a child and we each took turns holding her carefully like an infant. Her laughter filled the air as we clamoured to profess how we missed her.

My alarm chimed for the day and the harsh reality of her death shocked me out of my happy dream.

It’s been six months since we buried her.

It still feels like yesterday and a million years all at once.

In March 2019 we learned suddenly Grandma was terminal. Yet as I rang in the New Year, I somehow knew it would be the year we lost her. Still, I sat in disbelief when my mother told me the news.

From the other end of the phone, I only heard the words ‘cancer’ & ‘aggressive’ before she put Grandma on the phone.

‘Hey little darlin’!’ Her happy sing-song voice chirped from the other end of the line.

‘Now, I know you’re gonna be worrying about this but don’t! I’ll be alright. Come Summer time we’ll all be back in the pool!’

Even as she said it, I knew we’d never be swimming in the pool together again.

That night after I put my daughter to bed, I gave in. I lost myself in my tears. My legs felt weak and my sobs could no longer be contained within my chest. I felt the weight of her inevitable death upon my shoulders.

As always she had a way of making everyone else feel better. She was ‘one tough cookie’, around for 90 years. Her body was spent but her mind was still everything we’d always known and loved.

Sharp as a tack but her speech couldn’t quite keep up. She was a proud woman bound and determined her entire life to do things herself. She believed she could do anything she put her time into and she was right.

‘I know what’s going to happen and I’m ok with it my little baby. You’ve got to learn to be ok with it too.’

Rubye & Max when they married and again 70 years later.
Rubye & Max with their great grand-daughters. My daughter, Emmaline is pictured in the middle.

Within a week of hearing the news of her cancer, I published my sloppy first episodes of the conversations I recorded with them. It forced me into learning how to record audio but I’m still an amateaur when it comes to video & editing.

Of course, I’d only wished I’d started sooner…

I immersed myself into my recorded footage and produced five more episodes before I stopped.

Listening to my discussion with them about death, I stopped. Paralyzed by the thought, knowing the hard truth; we were loosing her and it was coming soon.

Her wisdom and her laughter- the joy she brought into every room… in no way are we ever ready to conclude these chapters in our lives. We want to hold on, even as her body failed her. She was NINETY years old but it was not enough.

She died on a Saturday. We buried her on a Tuesday.

She went peacefully in her own bed surrounded by the ones she loved the most. It was a rainy Saturday morning the eighth of June. As the thunder boomed she drew her last breaths.

grandfather helping grandmother in bathroom
My grandfather helped my grandmother every morning. This photograph was taken the last morning she was able to sit up in her wheelchair. While I’d watched this routine for years, this was the last and only time I took photos.

She had the chance to tell everyone she loved, ‘Good-bye.’

Back in March while grandma was still in the hospital, she had ‘the goodbye’ conversation with me. It’s a conversation few are lucky to have with someone before they leave this world. It was over the phone but I longed to snuggle up next to her and feel her warm skin against mine.

I closed my eyes and listened intently, imagining her hand in mine.

‘I’ve lived a long full life. And you need to do the same. I’m so proud of the mother you’ve become and I’m so happy to see you free and soaring again. I always knew you were so special.’

But you must get up everyday and try.

That’s the secret.

Remember, if you don’t toot your own horn- it won’t get tooted!’

Death is truly a thought impossible to understand until you watch it happen.

Similar to birth, when a new life begins- we can not imagine how life will be with this new person until they are here. In death, all of of sudden, the life we knew is gone. The memories of time spent together is all that remains… and of course, photographs.

Ultimately THIS is the reason I document LIFE. I want to preserve every precious morsel of love and joy she gave.

Our last summer days with Grandma

As the month of May ended and children cheered for the days in the pool. Grandma very quickly lost her ability to do anything for herself. Our fears were being realized- her body began to give out.

The first week of June, I cancelled plans, called Southwest Airlines and hopped on a plane heading south. (*Southwest Airlines were AMAZING! I am a loyal, life customer for the way the handled my situation! Fly Southwest!)

In her last 5 days on Earth, she was surrounded by family. Each day we gathered around her hospice bed in the living room where once watched the nightly game shows- Jepardy and Wheel of Fortune. Tuesday evening was the last time we’d ever see those shows together.

The night she died, I held her hand and sang her the same songs she once sang to me in childhood. I held my tears until I left the room.

Photography Tips to help you Shoot like a Pro

Do you want to take better photos but don’t know where to start? Do you currently have a-zillion photos on your phone and no plans with what to do with them?? In this post I’m going to share a few photo tips to get you thinking like a pro!

Just like everything, Photography has some basic rules to follow. ‘Photography rules are essential because they provide a foundation for more advanced photography tips and tricks later on. Learn the rules first, so you have more creative control when breaking them later. Learn as you go — don’t let it prevent you from picking up a camera.’ (

1) Change your Viewpoint 

Spend a few minutes analyzing your subject from all angles. Otherwise- MOVE! Don’t stand in one spot… walk around your subject! 

Get on the ground, climb a tree! {ok not literally}

As you move, take into account how the light moves as you do. Look past your subject to notice what’s distracting in the background.  Are there colors or objects that should be cropped from your frame?

Challenge yourself to snap 5 frames from each vantage point and analyze the results. Do not change your camera settings, just focus on your subject, shoot then move. Repeat.

MAKE NOTE:: When your viewpoint changed, how did this effect your subject within the frame. How did this influence the implied story? 

photograph child and puppy

2) Find the Light

Photography is ‘painting with light’. This will never change. The most dynamic photographs are ones with beautiful light and natural light is something every photographer must learn to master.

This is really the number ONE thing you need to learn but it can take a while to develop a photographic eye for seeing light.

Light is ALL around us! It doesn’t just come from the sun.

It can be reflected light as well, which is why you see photographers using reflectors on a bright sunny day. They are bouncing the sunlight off the reflector and into their subject’s face!

Try this tip!

Extend your arm out in front of you with your palm vertically facing you. Now rotate with your palm facing you until you turn 360 degrees. As you turn, watch the light on your palm. Notice where the shadows fall as you turn and how the lines in your hands become flat or gain dimension. Notice where the light is illuminating your hand in an appealing way. 

Now coax your subject into THAT light!

3) Don’t ask your subject to smile and say cheese!

We *think* we want everyone smiling at the camera. But do we? Really??

Whenever we ask someone to smile for the camera, what usually happens?!? 

They stop, reach out their arms awkwardly embracing the person next to them. They freeze a smile. It’s fake, boring and it does nothing to help us remember the experience we are attempting to document.

The most interesting images are the ones we can look at again and again without getting bored. For me, this means subjects interacting and enjoying the photo experience. The moments where the individuals I’m photographing forget I’m there. 

Children are the best subjects before they’ve been trained to ‘hold a smile’ for the camera. 

Try it out. Just sit with your camera in hand until the people and children around forget you have a camera!

Hopefully these simple photography tips will have you on the way to creating beautiful images!

I’d love to hear your thoughts on what worked and what didn’t?

Share your stories on Facebook and Instagram @amaplesphoto!

xoxo adrienne signing off

How to Photograph the Best Moments on Wedding Day

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Behind the scenes, photographer Adrienne Maples working with the groomsmen just before the wedding ceremony in Lawrence, Kansas.

When I started photographing weddings, I obliged to the requests of my clients accepting ‘wedding shot lists‘ assuming they knew what photographs they wanted. Tirelessly I worked capturing lengthy lists of details and various combinations of group photographs.

  • Details: the cake, the rings, the dress, shoes,
  • Flowers: boutineer, bouquet, special flowers
  • Bride with mom, Bride with dad, Bride w/ mom & dad…
  • Ceremony: each bridesmaid/groomsmen walking into the ceremony, bride with dad, groom seeing bride…
  • yada, yada…

I called these my ‘Where’s Waldo’ wedding treasure hunts and most of these requests were obvious to me. (Re: Photos with your parents! Of course I’m gonna do that!!)

Eventually, I’ve devised a way to coordinate group shots making them efficient yet allowing enough flexibility for real moments to develop. I began engineering ways to guide individuals, capturing beautiful details while snapping moments in-between the line items on my ‘list’.

But looking down checking a list, was making me miss the action taking place in front of me! After many years and hundreds of weddings, I’ve learned wedding day is full of wonderful stories. Yet it takes a skilled and capable photographer to anticipate and effectively capture these unexpected moments.

best wedding moments flowergirl and bridesmaids

After the wedding is over, the in-between moments are the most cherished memories from the day. Loved MORE than any list of expected shots!

best bridal portrait

So I want to review some of my favorite moments on wedding day and some tricks I use to achieve the photographs for which I am known.

bride ringbearers flowergirl

#1) Just after ‘I Do’

Sure this is on the most obvious moments to be ready with your camera! However sometimes couples forget to give themselves a moment to just breathe after the ceremony!? They quickly rush to the next event leaving no time to savor the moment.

I advise my couples to give themselves a 5-10 minute break between the conclusion of the ceremony and their next activity.

Why? Because these first moments can bring a sense of finality and closure to the entire process of planning for a wedding. Upon reflecting back on their wedding day, the majority of my couples say these were their favorite moments of the entire day! And oftentimes, they don’t even remember I was there.

Photography Tip: Ignore your photographer immediately after the ceremony! Relish the moment you are in and simply BE MARRIED!!

This moment occurred just after the guests blew bubbles while the bride and groom exited the church. I was disappointed the guests weren’t more engaged in the background, if they were it’d make the shot spectacular.
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This photograph was taken from the front seat of the vehicle just after the bride and groom exited the ballroom where they’d attended their traditional Hindu wedding ceremony.

#2 ) The Bridesmaids

Who wouldn’t want to photograph a bunch of fun-loving, beautiful girls in formal wear??

From the doating bestie to the girlfriend who’s more concerned about how she fits in her dress, the bridesmaids are sure to provide entertaining photography moments all day long! In recent years, it’s become more challenging to convince bridesmaids to put away their phones and live in the moment. But when given the opportunity to play for the camera, the bridesmaids are sure to bring lots of enthusiasm to create some memories.

During these photographs, the longevity of the flowers need consideration. On a hot summer day, flowers will wilt quickly! Once I had a thoughtless bridesmaid set down the bridal bouquet in the noon sun. My assistant was quick to notice and promptly returned it to a bucket of ice but not before the hydrangeas began to wilt.

Beautiful flowers can quickly turn into something less than gorgeous. So you might consider keeping the flowers indoors until after the ceremony. Wedding day is full of compromises and your photographer might decide to take photos without flowers in order to keep them fresh and lovely.

Photographer Tip: When playing with your friends encourage everyone to wear comfortable shoes! Most likely your feet won’t appear in the photographs up and comfy footwear goes a long way in keeping everyone comfortable during photos.

#3) The Bride getting into her Gown

Something magical happens when a bride slips on her wedding gown. She is immediately transformed into a bride and this moment can be very powerful. This moment was once a standard ‘bride looks at herself in the mirror’ which was noted on my ‘Where’s Waldo treasure hunt. But much more is going on that the bride noticing herself.

Mom wipes away tears, girlfriends beam with admiration and the bride finally feels like a bride!

Photography Tip: While I don’t like to ‘direct’ on wedding day, I do encourage important players to be ready just prior to the bride getting into her gown. Since there can be tender moments with loved ones, it’d advisable everyone is dressed and ready to be photographed.

giddy bride smiles as she shows off her gown
bride hugs mom with tears
bridesmaid hands bride a handkerchief
 bride getting into gown matron of honor helps

#4) The Toast

By far, one of my favorite parts of wedding day are the toasts! No one is paying attention to your photographer by this point in the evening and I have free range to move about the room, scanning the crowd and watching emotions run wild.

Typically, I’ve taken some time to set up dynamic lighting throughout the reception with the intention of highlighting important key figures. This extends beyond the bride and groom to their parents, friends and close relatives. Ideally the reception is set up in a way that makes these important people easy to find and photograph.

I set up with a long lens and keep my eyes peeled. There are plenty of stories waiting to be told.

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Truthfully, every wedding day is full of amazing moments worth photographing! From the gorgeous floral displays and adorable children to the intimate moments between loved ones that can easily be over-looked. When film was precious and photographers counted their frames, the wedding ceremony was dubbed THE place to capture the intimate details of wedding day but it’s not like this anymore.

The times have changed and we should expect more than mediocre photographs checked off a pre-determined list!

Your photographer should have the ability to anticipate key moments as well as take advantage of elements of the day. In the two frames below, I used elements of the wedding day to create something memorable. With some simple direction and creative lighting- beautiful portraits can be taken in a matter of minutes.

Photographer Tip: Simply allow yourself some flexibility on wedding day if you want creative portraits. Communicate this to your photographer and together you can devise a plan to make it happen.

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Weddings are beautiful chaos and a skilled photographer will anticipate where to be in order to capture the moment before it happens. Remember to choose your wedding team wisely!

xoxo adrienne signing off

Little Girls Grow Up; The Senior Portrait Experience

It’s been several years since I’ve seen her.

I met her and the rest of the family several years ago when her oldest brother was a senior at Blue Valley. While the entire family towered over me, Macy and her younger brother were about my height. They were both in their early teens and not yet finished growing. Now Macy had returned to see me for her senior photographs.

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The grey paper background was pulled down in the studio blocking the view of front entrance. As I finishing up with my session on the other side, Macy quietly slipped into the studio. As I walked around the corner and saw her sitting there-

I let out a gasp.

She sat with her long legs crossed in front of her and long blond locks cascaded down her back. She looked like Malibu Barbie sitting there and I was in awe of her transformation. I couldn’t believe my eyes.

“Is that really you??” 

Surely this couldn’t be the same little girl that was MY height only a few years ago??

I definitely didn’t look so composed when I was seventeen…

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When Macy stood to greet me, she let out a nervous giggle quietly telling me she felt so tall.

I smiled back, reassuring her we are each blessed with individuality. There is a benefit she owns by her height and there is some talent in my ability to fit into small spaces.

Opposite of her, I felt every inch of my 5’1’… admiring her towering presence and a slightly sad to see the ‘little’ girl I met years ago had disappeared.

My instinct was to hug her instantly!!!

…but with teenagers you haven’t seen in a while, it’s slightly creepy looking at them in bewilderment like they are still the kid you once knew. Instead, I wrote this blog post thinking some of you could relate!

Until Next Time,

xoxo adrienne signing off
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